Sibuk sikit mbeli barang2rumah kat Aik Hoe..Biasala kalo la beli barang rumah..mata xsah kalo x dapat glaucoma dengan harga barang..terutamanya barang2bilik air..mahal2semuanya.tiber2..
"doktor beli barang? ingat x anak saya"-ayah patient sambil hulurkan salam..
"oooo..anak encik masuk ward kanak2ker?sihat dah la ni"?-tekaan mengagak tanda tak ingat tp
nk jugak jagahati keluarga pesakit.
"sihat apa nya doktor..anak saya kan dah mati dulu kat PICU..doktor la yang tengok ( then clearly i remember a very unfortunate boy who died 2 months ago in our ICU).
"huh?maaf2saya silap..pesakit lain kot..saya kdg2 tertukar..minta maaf mak/ayah dia"..(terlajak bicara..cubaan menggulung kembali kesilapan lidah meneka rawak peristiwa masa lepas)..saya minta maaf mmg betul dr hati n otak yg byk lupa"..
"beli barang rumah encik?"-tanya utk alih topic.
"kami nk cari perkAkas baru sbb dh pindah rumah baru..xboleh duduk rumah lama sbb bayangan arwah masih membuatkan kami sedih sangat kalau tinggal rumah lama.."balas ayahnya..
I can understand that..some of them couldnt even hear their child's name being said,or meeting any doctor who have treated their child since it is too traumatic to think back the memories of the losses ..up to some extents even seeing the hospital building makes their heart aches.
Ni bukan kali keempat atau kelima..mau dh byk kali salah aku teka..tp byk jugop aku teka tepat kalo hal2 mcm ni terjadi.
But i remember the boy since the parents are so cooperative when he was terminally ill..he groaned in pain which was only partially relieved by morphine infusion..but with the severe pain he was still cooperative to let us examined him during our daily routine rounds..some children might extremely throw into tantrums,verbally become abusive or very difficult to handle but unlike him..he was still persistently showed his respect to us even we have 'nothing' to offer as a cure.tp apa yg menyentuh perasaan adlh bila melihat parents yg x fussy membantu jagarawatan wpun anak dah nazak..akhirnya the boy went to rest in peace with God with the echoic screaming pain.
..Mcmana nk buat kuala terengganu sahaja populasi rakyat 1 juta..kalo 40% adalah kanak2.maka2buat lah perkadaran linear sendiri utk dptkn nilai 'x' tu.. N then yang pernah dirawat setiap tahun bertambah sure otak xdpt ingat sangat semua pesakit or bekas2pesakit.
But from my direct observation for a social dynamic aspect..Terengganuan is actually a nice n unique Group of peoples who are really well attached about this kind of attitude..kalo jumpa kita kat luAr waktu kerja pun masih menghulurkn sillaturrahim wpun scr teknikalnya kita bukan lagi merawat ahli famili mereka..
Cuma sesetengah org Terengganu are 'unique' in another way round..kdg2 kita pun xmampu nk handle kepelikkan mereka..
Kalo kat ward cuba la tengok..kdg2 dtg melawat pesakit lain tp diziarah hampir separuh ward..yg hebat lg kadang2 xde kaitan keluarga pun mcm buat routine round tanya diagnosis pesakit lain..
Blom lagi kes sekampung datang melawat n then terus berekreasi kt ward..pesakit pun xselesa nk rehat.
Xpun kadang2mmg concern sampai kita cakap dgn pesakit tiba2 yang tanya soalan adalah katil sebelah..worse..yg menziarah plop tanya.
Xpun yg datang n mgharapkn antibiotic segera..mcm drive thru..yg dh started plop baru satu hari dah nak balik..
Thus, kita yg menyediakan servis kesihatan terpaksa la memahami jugop kelakuan2 n habit serta situasi mereka yg kita rawat..
Jangan kita marah plop semata2makcik mintak AOR discharge.. yg anak ramai nak jaga kat rumah so mmgla ada pikiran xsenang bg ibu yg mjaga bbndg seorg yg sakit di wad..mungkin kalo kita kaunsel elok2 dia phm n xjadi discharge.
Xpun jgn la kita ingat semua level pendidikan sama dgn kita..ada org jauh di luarbandar.. anak terlantar xboleh bangun baru nak bawsk dtg hospitAl in which generally it is too late..tp ada jugop yg demam baru pagi tadi dah bawak terus..jadi kena tanya n educate them properly..some of them are so glad if we pour some new knowledges on good parenting in monitoring health status at home.
Akhir kata..sama2la kita menjaga mereka kerana kalau kita sakit sure kita mgharapkn org paham kesakitan n kesusahan kita..
Learn to understand others..even they are greatly different with your belief upbringing or social status..or caste..or pocket-fulness..respect their belief and thought..
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| No wonder nama kedai Aik Hoe..asyik sebut "aik..aik..aik" setelah meneliti harga baranag...sambil pembantu kedai pun jawab "ho..ho..ho"... |
"oooo..anak encik masuk ward kanak2ker?sihat dah la ni"?-tekaan mengagak tanda tak ingat tp
nk jugak jagahati keluarga pesakit.
"sihat apa nya doktor..anak saya kan dah mati dulu kat PICU..doktor la yang tengok ( then clearly i remember a very unfortunate boy who died 2 months ago in our ICU).
"huh?maaf2saya silap..pesakit lain kot..saya kdg2 tertukar..minta maaf mak/ayah dia"..(terlajak bicara..cubaan menggulung kembali kesilapan lidah meneka rawak peristiwa masa lepas)..saya minta maaf mmg betul dr hati n otak yg byk lupa"..
"beli barang rumah encik?"-tanya utk alih topic.
"kami nk cari perkAkas baru sbb dh pindah rumah baru..xboleh duduk rumah lama sbb bayangan arwah masih membuatkan kami sedih sangat kalau tinggal rumah lama.."balas ayahnya..
I can understand that..some of them couldnt even hear their child's name being said,or meeting any doctor who have treated their child since it is too traumatic to think back the memories of the losses ..up to some extents even seeing the hospital building makes their heart aches.
Ni bukan kali keempat atau kelima..mau dh byk kali salah aku teka..tp byk jugop aku teka tepat kalo hal2 mcm ni terjadi.
But i remember the boy since the parents are so cooperative when he was terminally ill..he groaned in pain which was only partially relieved by morphine infusion..but with the severe pain he was still cooperative to let us examined him during our daily routine rounds..some children might extremely throw into tantrums,verbally become abusive or very difficult to handle but unlike him..he was still persistently showed his respect to us even we have 'nothing' to offer as a cure.tp apa yg menyentuh perasaan adlh bila melihat parents yg x fussy membantu jagarawatan wpun anak dah nazak..akhirnya the boy went to rest in peace with God with the echoic screaming pain.
..Mcmana nk buat kuala terengganu sahaja populasi rakyat 1 juta..kalo 40% adalah kanak2.maka2buat lah perkadaran linear sendiri utk dptkn nilai 'x' tu.. N then yang pernah dirawat setiap tahun bertambah sure otak xdpt ingat sangat semua pesakit or bekas2pesakit.
But from my direct observation for a social dynamic aspect..Terengganuan is actually a nice n unique Group of peoples who are really well attached about this kind of attitude..kalo jumpa kita kat luAr waktu kerja pun masih menghulurkn sillaturrahim wpun scr teknikalnya kita bukan lagi merawat ahli famili mereka..
Cuma sesetengah org Terengganu are 'unique' in another way round..kdg2 kita pun xmampu nk handle kepelikkan mereka..
Kalo kat ward cuba la tengok..kdg2 dtg melawat pesakit lain tp diziarah hampir separuh ward..yg hebat lg kadang2 xde kaitan keluarga pun mcm buat routine round tanya diagnosis pesakit lain..
Blom lagi kes sekampung datang melawat n then terus berekreasi kt ward..pesakit pun xselesa nk rehat.
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| Do they know that the children also need a good rest when they are ill.. |
Xpun yg datang n mgharapkn antibiotic segera..mcm drive thru..yg dh started plop baru satu hari dah nak balik..
Thus, kita yg menyediakan servis kesihatan terpaksa la memahami jugop kelakuan2 n habit serta situasi mereka yg kita rawat..
Jangan kita marah plop semata2makcik mintak AOR discharge.. yg anak ramai nak jaga kat rumah so mmgla ada pikiran xsenang bg ibu yg mjaga bbndg seorg yg sakit di wad..mungkin kalo kita kaunsel elok2 dia phm n xjadi discharge.
Xpun jgn la kita ingat semua level pendidikan sama dgn kita..ada org jauh di luarbandar.. anak terlantar xboleh bangun baru nak bawsk dtg hospitAl in which generally it is too late..tp ada jugop yg demam baru pagi tadi dah bawak terus..jadi kena tanya n educate them properly..some of them are so glad if we pour some new knowledges on good parenting in monitoring health status at home.
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| some parents can digest this kind of explaination..but majority most likely cannot.. |
Akhir kata..sama2la kita menjaga mereka kerana kalau kita sakit sure kita mgharapkn org paham kesakitan n kesusahan kita..
Learn to understand others..even they are greatly different with your belief upbringing or social status..or caste..or pocket-fulness..respect their belief and thought..
bile bace blOg dOc abOut the patient n terbace line "groaned in pain which was only partially relieved by morphine infusion" - teringat dengan arwah Karmila... :')
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